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Is There a Doctor in the House?

The Benefits of having a Family Doctor

You’ve probably come across the phrase ‘family doctor’ or ‘Family physician’ but if you haven’t, that’s ok. In what follows we will talk about what you need to know regarding having a family doctor and why you probably need one.

What is a family doctor?

First, we need to talk about family medicine. Family medicine is a 'specialty' field of medicine that focuses on giving holistic care to people of all ages and genders. The foundation of family medicine is based on the relationship between the patient and the physician and emphasizes preventive and integrated care.  It is safe to say that a family doctor is a medical practitioner that specializes in this field. The word specialty here is a misnomer as they don't really specialize in a particular area of medicine, but rather treat the whole person supporting their patients through different medical needs from births, chronic illness, and end-of-life care.

Family Doctor v General Practitioner

You may have also heard of a General Practitioner or a GP and are wondering what is the difference? Well for the most part there is little difference as they generally do the same jobs. However, they differ in some ways which are explored below.  Family doctors focus on meeting the needs of the whole family. They also usually receive training in pediatrics, obstetrics and gynecology, and geriatrics in addition to general medicine. Due to this, a patient can often receive all the care they need in one location. They also mainly focus on preventive care as they treat you through all stages of your life. GPs on the other hand also see patients of any age (usually doesn't include infants) but don't tend to specialize in one area. This means that should further, specific care be needed, they will often refer you to a specialist. General practice doctors tend to focus on the treatment of acute conditions.

Why do you need one?

Family doctors deal with the person as a whole and through all stages of their life. This means that should you have a family doctor they are very well versed in your medical history as well as that of your family. This means that they often have a clearer picture of your medical needs and can focus on preventative care as well as diagnose issues that a GP might not be able to due to knowing your family's history. For example, because Dr. FD has treated your parents and you, you may bring your child in with symptoms of tiredness and irritability, and lightheadedness. In addition to the general tests, he may look for signs of diabetes as on your father's record it is noted that his mother had diabetes putting the family at an increased risk. A GP might have just treated the symptoms, leading you to have multiple follow-up visits.

What are the cons?

The truth? There isn't any downside to having a family doctor (at least none that I could find.) However, in the interest of fairness here are some things that one should watch out for when it comes to having a family doctor.

Finding a Family Doctor

The basis of this specialization of medicine in the patient-doctor relationship emphasis on relationship. This means that you need to be comfortable with whichever physician you choose. This process might require you to shop around a bit which can be frustrating. However, always remember that the doctor you choose may be with you for a long time treating you and your current or future family so you need to be 100% comfortable telling them everything, even things that are not necessarily medical.

Cost 

It's natural that the cost of things rises as time goes on, that's just the reality of life. Usually, if your doctor is part of a small family practice this isn’t a problem as you may be able to work out a payment schedule should the cost start to rise too much. This may become problematic should the practice be owned or bought by a larger corporation. They may set their own prices, which are out of your budget and may also not allow for structured payments, ultimately forcing you to find a  different doctor.

Retirement

Just like with any job, doctors do retire. This may be a problem that presents itself if you have an older doctor, most usually as a result of the fact that they have been your doctor for a long time (Maybe they initially treated your parents when they were younger). This again will lead to you having to find another doctor.   These situations are just some to watch out for. In any case, if it seems that you would not be continuing with your regular doctor ask them to recommend someone for you  

The Lost Art of Being Happy

_doesn't make me happy anymore. Insert your pronoun.  These are words echoed by millions around the world every day, from couples contemplating divorces to people in dead-end jobs and careers. And it's okay. As humans, we are a complex species and as we grow, we change. Things that once made us happy can lose their shine and suddenly become a burden to us. That's fine too. Disclaimer this isn't an article guaranteed to make you happy but hopeful by reading this, you can realize you are not alone and that happiness is within your grasp.   First things first: No one can make you happy but you! (Louder for the people in the back). This is a fundamental truth echoed by psychologists, self-help books, and all the influencers on Instagram. And it's true. While we can find happiness in other people and things, this is often fleeting and personally, I don't consider it true happiness. For that, you have to start from you. Happiness is a state of mind. Like all emotions, happiness is just a combination of chemicals playing tricks on our brain (weird I know.) This leads us to a buzzword - Mental health, have you heard about it? The two are very much interlinked. If your mental state isn't right then happiness stays out of sight. (oh that rhymed). Talk to someone you trust about your problems, be it family or a professional (I highly recommend a professional). Cut out toxic relationships, handle problems as they come, and don't bottle up emotions. Anything to make sure your mental health is as healthy as it can be and those chemicals are mixing right. It's a journey, not a destination. Most people believe that happiness is this magical destination of beauty, light, and everything right (the rhymes just keep coming) and that once you get there you can set up shop, kick back and relax. If it were, I'd hate to see the price listings for the houses. But if this were the case, how come your second cousin Sophia who was on top of the world last week is currently sobbing into your shoulder about how unhappy she is. That's easy. Happiness isn’t a destination or a task to be ticked off a list. It's a journey and like any journey, there are good stretches and then there are Nairobi road sections. If you treat it as a destination or a one-time goal then every time you feel unhappy you will undoubtedly feel like you have failed and that leads to more unhappiness. This brings me to my next point. Sadness is a part of the process. Just because your goal is happiness doesn't mean sadness can't play a role. There is a stereotype that negative emotions are bad and should be avoided at all costs. This is simply not true. Case in point: when people tell you they feel better after a good cry or more scientifically, research that has shown that cursing in anger after feeling pain e.g stubbing your toe, helps lessen that pain (only a little, so don't go cursing up a storm). I choose to believe that this is because letting out these negative emotions in a good way is healthy and cleansing. This allows for the mental space that good emotions can fill up. So yes a good cry or occasionally feeling sad and down is allowed and even encouraged (let's be honest we are all secretly freaked out by perpetually happy people). After all, how can you appreciate joy if you never know sadness? You are enough. To really be happy you need to put yourself first. I once read something, once upon a time, where the author detested the line in the wedding vows about two becoming one. According to her, it made it seem that most people weren't whole or couldn't be whole until they found their partner. While I get the symbolism in a wedding, the implications, in reality, can be a little scary. You are whole by yourself. You are enough. Rather than think of this other person as completing you, think of them more as making a great thing even better. Like a real-life upgrade pack, helping you to achieve even greater heights that you never thought of because all those heights you wanted to achieve? you got there on your own.

Below are some things that help me and, I hope, can help you on your journey of happiness. 

Find something you love and make time to do it - this can be writing, painting, dancing, or solving complex math problems. Find what it is and make time to do it. Even if it's just for thirty minutes every day. Take a walk outside - everyone is different and if you’re like me, sunshine is not for you. I’m a rainy day baby and going outside when there's a slight drizzle makes me super happy (Petrichor - the smell of rain on dry earth. You’re welcome). Find your perfect weather and go outside, be it sunshine or rain or fog. But even if you’re a rainy baby, still make time to go out in the sun (Insert all the health benefits here). Listen to music - music has a way of reaching into our chest and pulling out emotions we didn't know we had or we can’t express. This is a good thing because it can help you cope with and identify unresolved feelings or just change your mood entirely (I dare you to be sad while singing along to Uptown Funk by Bruno Mars). Be creative -  this is not really for everyone. Doing something creative lets our imagination run wild and I've personally found this to be therapeutic in its own right. It allows me to see problems in a new and different way and find creative solutions (see what I did there) for them. Treat your body right - your body is a temple so treat it that way. Taking care of your body will always lead to positive results. Change up your diet by eating filling but healthy meals that incorporate more fruits and vegetables. Pamper yourself and not only after a long, tiring day. Be it by going to a spar or having your very own spa day in your house (this applies equally to men). Exercise. You don’t need to go for the intense gym session. Fast walking or jogging around your neighborhood several times a week does wonders for the body and soul. Also, visit a doctor to get checked out. This is also a part of the process. Treat yourself - Once in a while, you are allowed to buy yourself something just because you like the way it looks or smells, or tastes or because it's cute. And it doesn't have to be super expensive. A  pen, earrings, colorful notebooks, a belt, or a meal. You are allowed to buy something just because it makes you smile and every time you see it after a little shot of happiness will go through you. Don't be afraid to be by yourself - take a day off to just get to know yourself again and re-center. Listen to your thoughts and feelings, and what they are telling you. Keep a journal if you need to, it might help in identifying foreign feelings later in the week. But mainly take this time to know yourself.
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